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1290 days ago
1290 days ago

A letter from your teenager

Owner from Balance for Life

I love this ❤️

Dear Mom and Dad,

Please stick with me.

I can’t think clearly right now because there is a rather substantial section of my prefrontal cortex missing. It’s a fairly important chunk, something having to do with rational thought. You see, it won’t be fully developed … View more
I love this ❤️

Dear Mom and Dad,

Please stick with me.

I can’t think clearly right now because there is a rather substantial section of my prefrontal cortex missing. It’s a fairly important chunk, something having to do with rational thought. You see, it won’t be fully developed until I’m about 25. And from where I sit, 25 seems a long way off.

It doesn’t matter that I’m smart; even a perfect score on my math SAT doesn’t insulate me from the normal developmental stages that we all go through. Judgement and intelligence are two completely distinct things.

And, the same thing that makes my brain wonderfully flexible, creative and sponge-like also makes me impulsive. Not necessarily reckless or negligent but more impulsive than I will be later in life.

Please stick with me.

So when you look at me like I have ten heads after I’ve done something “stupid” or failed to do something “smart,” you’re not really helping.
You adults respond to situations with your prefrontal cortex (rationally) but I am more inclined to respond with my amygdala (emotionally). And when you ask, “What were you thinking?” the answer is I wasn’t, at least not in the way you are. You can blame me, or you can blame mother nature, but either way, it is what it is.

At this point in my life, I get that you love me, but my friends are my everything. Please understand that. Right now I choose my friends, but, don’t be fooled, I am watching you. Carefully.

Please stick with me.

Here’s what you can do for me

1. Model adulting.
I see all the behaviors that you are modeling and I hear all of the words you say. I may not listen but I do hear you. I seem impervious to your advice, like I’m wearing a Kevlar vest but your actions and words are penetrating. I promise. If you keep showing me the way, I will follow even if I detour many, many times before we reach our destination.

2. Let me figure things out for myself.
If you allow me to experience the consequences of my own actions I will learn from them. Please give me a little bit of leash and let me know that I can figure things out for myself. The more I do, the more confidence and resilience I will develop.

3. Tell me about you.
I want you to tell me all the stories of the crazy things you did as a teen, and what you learned from them. Then give me the space to do the same.

4. Help me with perspective.
Keep reminding me of the big picture. I will roll my eyes at you and make all kinds of grunt-like sounds. I will let you know in no uncertain terms that you can’t possibly understand any of what I’m going through. But I’m listening. I really am. It’s hard for me to see anything beyond the weeds that I am currently mired in. Help me scan out and focus on the long view. Remind me that this moment will pass.

5. Keep me safe.
Please remind me that drugs and driving don’t mix. Keep telling me that you will bail me out of any dangerous situation, no anger, no lectures, no questions asked. But also let me know over and over and over that you are there to listen, when I need you.

6. Be kind.
I will learn kindness from you and if you are relentless in your kindness to me, someday I will imitate that behavior. Don’t ever mock me, please and don’t be cruel. Humor me-I think I know everything. You probably did as well at my age. Let it go.

7. Show interest in the things I enjoy.
Some days I will choose to share my interests with you, and it will make me feel good if you validate those interests, by at least acting interested.
One day when the haze of adolescence lifts, you will find a confident, strong, competent, kind adult where a surly teenager once stood. In the meantime, buckle in for the ride.

Please stick with me.

Love,

Your Teenager

grownandflown.com...

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1290 days ago

Malicious email impersonating NZ Post circulating

Neighbourly.co.nz

New Zealand Post have published a warning to customers after several variations of a scam email were reported over the past 24 hours.

The email asks to correct personal details because of a failed parcel delivery.

The email directs the recipient to 'schedule a new delivery'. If any… View more
New Zealand Post have published a warning to customers after several variations of a scam email were reported over the past 24 hours.

The email asks to correct personal details because of a failed parcel delivery.

The email directs the recipient to 'schedule a new delivery'. If any individual has received these emails, NZ Post has advised to delete it immediately.

In a statement sent to Neighbourly, NZ Post confirmed that it had taken 24 websites offline in relation to the scam.

For more information on the scam, please see the NZ Post's Cyber Security Alerts page.

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1290 days ago

World Baking Day !

The Team from Red Cross Shop Panmure

“Bake the world a better place and shop at your Red Cross Shop !”

1291 days ago

Get Out More and explore this Autumn!

Explore Central North Island

Want to hit the road and seeking inspiration to go somewhere new in the central North Island? Help is just a click away!

We’ve done the hard work for you creating over 60 fantastic breaks you can use to plan that quick weekend away, a short break, or take that long-awaited roadie.

We give … View more
Want to hit the road and seeking inspiration to go somewhere new in the central North Island? Help is just a click away!

We’ve done the hard work for you creating over 60 fantastic breaks you can use to plan that quick weekend away, a short break, or take that long-awaited roadie.

We give you the ideas – you just choose when and where, and pack the car. Time to get planning!
Find out more

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1291 days ago

Bissell little green carpet and upholstery cleaner

Mark from Glendowie

Product Details
Effortlessly remove embedded stains and dirt from carpets, stairs or cars with this portable carpet spot cleaner. Along with a space-saving design and convenient carry handle, this little cleaner features a flexible hose for targeted dirt removal and a spray trigger for pretreating … View more
Product Details
Effortlessly remove embedded stains and dirt from carpets, stairs or cars with this portable carpet spot cleaner. Along with a space-saving design and convenient carry handle, this little cleaner features a flexible hose for targeted dirt removal and a spray trigger for pretreating tough stains. It's made from 75% recycled plastic for an eco-friendly design.

Tough brush for deep cleaning and stain extraction
Eco-friendly design made from over 75% recycled material
Spray trigger for pretreating tough stains
Carry handle for ultimate portability
Convenient on-board tool storage

Comes with small bottle of solution. Only used a handful of times works great on carpet and vehicle interior.

Price: $200

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1291 days ago

Dining Table with 6 chairs

German from Glendowie

Very strong and beautiful Teak dining table. Table is in good condition. Normal wear and tear. Only a couple of marks.

Height 740mm x Width 2100mm x Depth 1050mm

Pick up in Glendowie.

Happy to answer any questions. First come, first served.

Price: $500

1291 days ago

Lawnmower Servicing

Charlotte Penrose from Elstree Mowers 2007 Ltd

Happy Monday Everyone,
Having problems with your lawnmower? Just give me a call for a free quote and pick up, have a great day Charlotte Elstree Mowers 0276013006 or 09 5285105

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1291 days ago

Lawnmower Servicing

Charlotte Penrose from Elstree Mowers 2007 Ltd

Happy Monday everyone,
Having problems with your lawnmower just give me a call and I will collect at no charge give it service and drop back. Have a great day Charlotte Elstree Mowers 0276013006 or 09 5285105

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1296 days ago

How to recycle broken glass

The Team from Auckland Council

Learn what to do when recycling broken glass. Large chunks are ok, as long as they are from grocery packaging. Always remember when recycling if in doubt, leave it out.

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1291 days ago

Free Buxus

Busy Lizzy Gardens

We are giving away about 15 Buxus. They will be ready for pick up in half an hour or so. Please text 028 85130342. First come, first served.

Update: These are all gone now. Thank you

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1291 days ago

Do you employ people?

Weston & Associates Ltd Chartered Accountants

Following the recent minimum wage increase, now is the ideal time for you to ensure your business's employment agreements (contracts) are up to date.

On April 1, the adult minimum wage increased from $18.90 to $20.00 gross per hour, and the starting-out and training minimum wage increased … View more
Following the recent minimum wage increase, now is the ideal time for you to ensure your business's employment agreements (contracts) are up to date.

On April 1, the adult minimum wage increased from $18.90 to $20.00 gross per hour, and the starting-out and training minimum wage increased from $15.12 to $16.00 gross per hour.

You can use this as an opportunity to ensure you are meeting your legal obligations and build stronger staff relationships. Also, consider potential impacts of the minimum wage increase on internal wage relativity, external benchmarking and staff current and future pay expectations.

By law every employee must have a current written employment contract. It must state the wage rate or salary payable, which must be equal or more than the relevant minimum wage. With any changes of wages, the employer must send a contract variation letter advising of the new wage. Negotiated and used fairly such contracts can be a great foundation for win/win, productive employment relationships with your staff.

If you are looking for a good payroll system for a start up or for an existing business, we can recommend one and look after your taxes and accounting needs at the same time.

Call us today for an appointment.
Phone: 09 5280069

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1294 days ago

If a dog was your teacher 🐶

Owner from Balance for Life

If a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:
• When your loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
• Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
• Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure Ecstasy.
• Take naps.
• Stretch before rising.
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If a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:
• When your loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
• Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
• Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure Ecstasy.
• Take naps.
• Stretch before rising.
• Run, romp, and play daily.
• Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
• Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
• On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
• On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
• When you’re happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
• Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
• Be faithful.
• Never pretend to be something you’re not.
• If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
• When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by, and nuzzle them gently.
That's the secret of happiness that we can learn from a good dog.
( in the photo are my precious fury angels...miss and love them so much)

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1292 days ago

Persian rug

Hoda from Glendowie

i have a very beautiful piece of rug for sale ...if u have any one interesting...It is
2.65/3.60 meter in size ...
it is shen wah...wool ...hand knotted ...90 knotted per inch ...5/8 inch thick....4kg per square meter ...it Iranian made.
I got evaluated from Persian rug gallery here in NZ and … View more
i have a very beautiful piece of rug for sale ...if u have any one interesting...It is
2.65/3.60 meter in size ...
it is shen wah...wool ...hand knotted ...90 knotted per inch ...5/8 inch thick....4kg per square meter ...it Iranian made.
I got evaluated from Persian rug gallery here in NZ and they told me that the price will b about $4500

Price: $4,500

1293 days ago

Solid wood bed

Rebijith from Saint Johns

Solid wood bed without mattress. Negotiable price.

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