Wainuiomata, Lower Hutt

2655 days ago

The 1 to 9 Couples Sex Scale

Ann from Relationship Wellbeing Specialist

A lot of couples are uncomfortable talking about how to initiate and refuse sex.

It's also difficult to cope with being turned down.

The key to making “yes” and “no” feel less loaded is to have an agreed-upon ritual in your relationship for navigating sex.

Noted sex therapist… View more
A lot of couples are uncomfortable talking about how to initiate and refuse sex.

It's also difficult to cope with being turned down.

The key to making “yes” and “no” feel less loaded is to have an agreed-upon ritual in your relationship for navigating sex.

Noted sex therapist Lonnie Barbach suggests that couples use a scale from 1 to 9 to indicate how amorous each of them is feeling, with 1 meaning “Not at all,” 5 meaning “I’m convince-able,” and 9 meaning “Let’s do it!”

So, if your partner initiates and you’re not in the mood, you can say, “I love you, and right now I’m a 1.” If you’re not sure, you could say, “Right now I’m a 5. Let’s kiss and see where it goes.”

The more you can hear, understand, and respect your partner’s “no” about any marital issue, the more “yes” there will be in your relationship.


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2655 days ago

WATCH A MASTER ARTIST PAINT PETONE FORESHORE

Alfred Memelink Artspace Gallery

This will be the last weekend to view the amazing exhibition by Alan Collins and on Saturday afternoon, 22nd Sept, you can see him in action. From 1.30pm Alan will be painting the view looking out from the gallery. Watch the 92 year old master of watercolours at work, make notes as he shares … View moreThis will be the last weekend to view the amazing exhibition by Alan Collins and on Saturday afternoon, 22nd Sept, you can see him in action. From 1.30pm Alan will be painting the view looking out from the gallery. Watch the 92 year old master of watercolours at work, make notes as he shares some his secrets and enjoy some of his many funny anecdotes he experienced whilst painting outdoors. In between each painting stage, you can enjoy his exhibition which features over 40 new paintings featuring views of the Hutt Valley, Eastbourne Wellington and England. If you might be considering Alan to do a painting especially for you, this would be a great time to talk to him about what you have in mind. he'd be delighted to chat with you.

2655 days ago

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2676 days ago

Pataka Aroha

Jane from Naenae

Yayyy it is finally opening day for our Free Food Pantry in Nae nae 2pm TODAY.The weather is dull n miserable,but the warmth and Aroha will over-ride.
Come n be part of one of the many pop-up Pataka's thru out the country.Bear in mind to be considerate n mindful always of others around us.We … View more
Yayyy it is finally opening day for our Free Food Pantry in Nae nae 2pm TODAY.The weather is dull n miserable,but the warmth and Aroha will over-ride.
Come n be part of one of the many pop-up Pataka's thru out the country.Bear in mind to be considerate n mindful always of others around us.We need ur support to keep this Waka going.Dont be shy of coming,its open to EVERYONE.Days of opening hours,Mon,Tues,Wed n Sunday 8-5pm to allow restock.
Lets Row our Waka together Everyone One Stroke at a Time.

2655 days ago

Free Curtains

Ron from Wallaceville - Whitemans Valley

The Curtain Bank will be taking orders between 17th - 28th September 12-2pm at the Rimutaka Baptist Church.

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2655 days ago

Suffragists Exhibition at Vogel House

Te Omanga Hospice

Hutt City Council archives and About Space Hutt City are presenting an exhibition and series of speakers at Vogel House, Lower Hutt to celebrate 125 years of NZ women having the vote.

This is a rare opportunity to visit Vogel House, which is located at 75 Woburn Rd, and learn more about our local … View more
Hutt City Council archives and About Space Hutt City are presenting an exhibition and series of speakers at Vogel House, Lower Hutt to celebrate 125 years of NZ women having the vote.

This is a rare opportunity to visit Vogel House, which is located at 75 Woburn Rd, and learn more about our local suffragists. Te Omanga is grateful to be the recipient charity of the koha/donation ($2) at entry to Vogel House. Money raised will go towards the rebuild of our hospice.

Programme of events:

20 September – 2 October, 10AM – 4PM
Exhibition of photographs of Hutt Women Suffragists, and Vogel House and Garden open to the public.

22 September, 11AM
Launch of the E-book, Suffrage 125: Hutt Women Signatories to the 1892 and 1893 Suffrage Petitions.

22 – 23 September & 29 - 30 September, 12PM – 3PM
Prominent Hutt women, local councillors and members of organisations talk about their roles.

Photo: Alexander Turnbull Library, Wellington, Ref: 1/4-023548-F

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Free School Holiday Events at Hutt City Libraries!

Kylie from Hutt City Libraries

Tamariki can spark their imaginations at our FREE holiday events on from 1-14 October.

Robots, Lego, science, building, and lots of spark-ly hands-on fun!
Events are for ages 5+ unless otherwise specified. Some events may require registration.

For a full list of events see our website or … View more
Tamariki can spark their imaginations at our FREE holiday events on from 1-14 October.

Robots, Lego, science, building, and lots of spark-ly hands-on fun!
Events are for ages 5+ unless otherwise specified. Some events may require registration.

For a full list of events see our website or pick up a timetable at your local library.

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