Not everyone trapped by alcohol is an alcoholic
There is help for families affected by problem drinking.
In extreme cases, an alcoholic may be homeless, but many live in families that are struggling because of the challenges that come with problem drinking.
Family members become lonely, isolated, ashamed and depressed. They feel that life has become unmanageable or unbearable. Al-Anon-Alateen Family Groups is a support programme for people who are living with or have lived with the problems of someone else's drinking.
Al-Anon and Alateen for young people offer understanding and personal growth - whether the alcoholic is still drinking or not. There are free of charge meetings daily around Auckland. To find one visit online here.
Members share their experiences of applying the Al-Anon principles to their lives. There is no advice given or specific direction suggested.
Below are a few thoughts from people who have tried Al-Anon:
"I believed that the only thing I needed to be happy and safe was for my husband to stop drinking."
"My life had got so out of control not knowing what my state my daughter would be in when I got home."
"I thought I was strong enough to deal with this on my own...After trying everything, I went to my first meeting."
Poll: Is it rude to talk on the phone on a bus?
Buses can be a relaxing way to get home if you have a seat and enough space. However, it can be off-putting when someone is taking a phone call next to you.
Do you think it's inconsiderate for people to have lengthy phone calls on a bus? Vote in the poll, and add your comments below.
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63.9% Yes
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33.6% No
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2.5% Other - I'll share below
Meditation – The Big Picture
An evening not to be missed! With guest visiting speaker Prachar Stegemann, musician, writer, marathon runner, international teacher, here for one week as part of his global tour promoting the benefits and secrets of meditation. In addition to sharing his own inspirational accounts of meditation, his Big Picture evenings are interactive and encourage a wonderful, informal rapport with his audiences, inviting the deeper questions – ‘Why am I here, how can I know my soul’s purpose, what lies beneath the chatter of my mind’?
When: Monday/Tuesday, Nov. 18, 19: 7:00pm – 8:30pm
Where: Fickling Convention Centre, 546 Mt Albert Road, Three Kings. Look for the entry below the library, opposite City Fitness gym. Plenty of free local parking available.
Registration: Free admission, but registration is required to accommodate numbers.
Please use the contact form below, or text your name, number attending to: Nirakara 027 445 4415
Looking forward to seeing you all!
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