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We are seeking volunteer sewers to help raise funds for ovarian cancer awareness and research. All contributions welcome.
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Kitten season has arrived, and over the next six months, over 8,000 cats and kittens will come into SPCA’s care. Please help us give these babies the best start in life and sign up to be a foster parent today! It's not just cats and kittens - we are also urgently seeking foster homes for … View moreKitten season has arrived, and over the next six months, over 8,000 cats and kittens will come into SPCA’s care. Please help us give these babies the best start in life and sign up to be a foster parent today! It's not just cats and kittens - we are also urgently seeking foster homes for dogs and small animals.
Fostering saves lives and helps these tiny babies grow into healthy, well-adjusted adults, ready for adoption. We cover all training and costs. All you need is time and love to spare!
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Love gooseberries? Share your favourite way to enjoy them. We're looking for our readers' favourite family recipes for this delicious crop. Send yours to mailbox@nzgardener.co.nz, and if we use it in the magazine, you will receive a free copy of our December 2024 issue.
Calling all businesses! You can all utilize self storage in some way, to help your company grow and expand!
Here are just some of the types of businesses that can use self storage:
Publishers
Need to store magazines, brochures or books before you sell them? Or store excess stock? A self … View moreCalling all businesses! You can all utilize self storage in some way, to help your company grow and expand!
Here are just some of the types of businesses that can use self storage:
Publishers
Need to store magazines, brochures or books before you sell them? Or store excess stock? A self storage unit is perfect for this, our staff can assist with deliveries too. You can move to a larger or smaller unit if you need more space.
Contractors and Tradies
Keeping your tools or equipment in your garage or vehicle can seem convenient but can come with some risks, theft being the main one. Tools of the trade can be expensive and it can set you back a lot of money to replace them suddenly, not to mention potentially losing a days’ work. If you keep everything in a storage unit, you can rest assured that your tools and equipment will be safe in our facilities.
Theatre Groups
Need somewhere to store all of those sets, props and costumes? Look no further. You could even use it as a living and breathing costume department.
Online businesses
Storage facilities are perfect for online businesses. You can have your shipping containers unpacked and cleared and the contents delivered straight to your unit. Often when you’re starting out, your inventory can grow faster than the space you’ve got available so self storage can be a real help.
Sales reps / Merchandisers
What do you do if your business, office or home is on one side of the city and your customer base another? Can you fit all of your samples and stock into your car? Even if you can, is it worth the risk of theft? A self storage unit can be ideal. Not only does it make it easy to keep an inventory, you can come and go as often as you like and if you need more storage, you can look at getting a larger unit.
There are lots of opportunities for all sorts of businesses to utilize self storage. If you’d like to learn more about how it could work for you, give our knowledgeable staff a call today on
09 476 4667
or visit our website
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for more details or a quote.
Spruce up your outdoor area for spring soirées in the sun with a simple but stylish rug you can personalise with your own design using your favourite Resene colours.
Find out how to create your own with these easy step by step instructions.
As the festive season approaches, many are planning their holiday at one of the magnificent beaches we enjoy in NZ. But often families overlook that they are leaving their family home unattended. Security lights activated by motion detection provide a fantastic deterrent to people who may be … View moreAs the festive season approaches, many are planning their holiday at one of the magnificent beaches we enjoy in NZ. But often families overlook that they are leaving their family home unattended. Security lights activated by motion detection provide a fantastic deterrent to people who may be snooping around while you are away. When your driveway suddenly lights up like Eden Park, this is a great message for the uninvited to go elsewhere. Makes sure you have some form of security lighting in place before you head off to the beach. Replace failed security lights and ensure peace of mind while you are away. Don't be the only home in the street that has no security lights - you may become the target
Howard Lewis 0275667626 or 0800688244 office@abelectrical.co.nz
Three suspected scammers have been arrested trying to leave New Zealand with a large quantity of cash from their alleged victims.
A 50-year-old man and two women, 59 and 53, were arrested at Auckland International Airport yesterday by detectives from the Auckland City Financial Crime Unit. The … View moreThree suspected scammers have been arrested trying to leave New Zealand with a large quantity of cash from their alleged victims.
A 50-year-old man and two women, 59 and 53, were arrested at Auckland International Airport yesterday by detectives from the Auckland City Financial Crime Unit. The trio, all Chinese nationals, were arrested just before they checked in for their flights to China.
They arrived in New Zealand on 10 October. Police alleged that two days later, they began operating a blessing scam – a form of fraud targeting immigrant or elderly communities who are deceived into believing they or their loved ones are cursed or in spiritual danger.
Police have jointly charged the three suspects with two counts of obtaining by deception. The charges relate to two victims – one who lost $14,500 and jewellery and another who lost $15,000.
The accused were remanded in custody following their arrest and are due to appear in the Auckland District Court today. Police are continuing to tally the money that has been recovered, but it is a substantial amount.
Perpetrators of blessing scams pose as healers or spiritual practitioners, offering to remove the curse or bring good fortune in exchange for money or valuable items. Victims are pressured to hand over cash or jewellery, typically instructed not to open the packages they receive, only to later discover that the contents are worthless.
While the Financial Crime Unit has identified two victims so far, it’s highly likely more people were targeted.
We urge anyone who may have fallen victim to this scam to contact us and encourage members of New Zealand’s Chinese community to talk with elderly relatives and make a report if they have been scammed.
If you have any information that could help our enquiries, please contact us at 105.police.govt.nz... or call 105.
In New Zealand, blessing scams have predominantly targeted Chinese communities, exploiting cultural beliefs in spiritual healing and curses. This type of fraud has been active in New Zealand for more than 15 years, with a notable rise in cases in Auckland in recent years.
Police have continued to raise awareness within at-risk communities, yet these fraudulent activities persist, often carried out by well-coordinated groups.
Police remain committed to protecting all members of the public from fraud and financial harm, and ensuring that everyone feels safe from deceptive practices.
We encourage the community to stay vigilant against scams and to remain cautious when approached by individuals offering unsolicited services.
If you suspect that you may have fallen victim to a scam, please contact Police via 105 immediately.
PARENT EFFECTIVENESS TRAINING (PET) ONLINE STARTS 7PM SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2024--PEACEFUL PARENTING FOR A PEACEFUL WORLD
Hello Parents for a Peaceful World
Parent Effectiveness Training PET is the world’s oldest, most popular and proven effective parenting program in the world. Since its … View morePARENT EFFECTIVENESS TRAINING (PET) ONLINE STARTS 7PM SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 17, 2024--PEACEFUL PARENTING FOR A PEACEFUL WORLD
Hello Parents for a Peaceful World
Parent Effectiveness Training PET is the world’s oldest, most popular and proven effective parenting program in the world. Since its inception in 1962 millions of parents from many different cultures have benefitted from the program. PET differs from all other parenting programs in that it never condones nor advocates the use of any kind of punishment or reward. You learn how to substitute talking and listening to meet needs mutually rather than using power to try to control the child’s unwanted behaviour or giving up and surrendering to your child.
PET is a 16+ hour course delivered by Zoom in eight 2+ hour sessions, over eight consecutive weeks at a day/time convenient for all worldwide. The course includes two workbooks, the PET book by Thomas Gordon (also in Chinese), PDF of sessions, and Completion Certificate--all digital texts sent by email. Highly interactive role plays, group discussions, personal examples, workbook exercises--in group, pairs and threesomes; and individual weekly debriefing. $100NZD/$60USD (Single or Couple--$50NZD/$30USD repeat students). Sign up now to make a peaceful world through peaceful parenting!
NOTE FOR PAYMENT: ALL MONEY GOES TO MY AFRICAN CHARITY
Please click on my GiveSendGo Charity link below and pay using any international Debit/Credit card. Any extra donation is greatly appreciated by my African survivors.
NOAH’S ARK FOR KENYAN FLOOD & CRIME SURVIVORS 2024
www.givesendgo.com...
Once you have made the donation I will email you the PET documents for you to read ahead.
NOTE TO FIND YOU TIME COMPARED TO NEW ZEALAND
To find your time from left to right, type in the New Zealand window 19:00 2024-11-17; type your country below, then type in your time in 24 hour format and the date 2024-11-17 and you will get your day/time for NZ
New Zealand Time Converter
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SAME ZOOM LINK FOR ALL 8 SESSIONS
Jack Carney is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.
Join Zoom Meeting
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Meeting ID: 824 532 0024
Passcode: 772388
PARENT EFFECTIVENESS TRAINING NEW ZEALAND WEBSITE
http:///tinyurl.com/2kdz4629
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"Parents can raise children who are responsible, self-disciplined, and cooperative without relying on the weapon of fear; they can learn how to influence children to behave out of genuine consideration for the needs of parents rather than out of fear of punishment or withdrawal of privileges.” Thomas Gordon
“As I took my PET Course, I started noticing changes within myself and in my daughter. She responded to all the skills as I learned them and put them into practice. Our problems became less and less. Through the new skills I was learning, I was able to improve our relationship; we learned to be honest and have an open relationship. I started trusting her more, and in return she did the same.” Mother who took PET
P.E.T. ACTIVE LISTENING/METHOD III DEMONSTRATION-- 5 Y.O. BONNIE & HER MOTHER—take the time to listen to this!!! (see attachment)
Here is a recording made of a 5 year old daughter and her mother using the P.E.T. technique of “Active Listening” as part of the “Method III” with its 6 steps. share.getcloudapp.com...
YOUTUBE VIDEOS ON PET:
“Everybody Loves Raymond”—U.S. TV series, Ray: “A parenting class? That’s supposed to come natural. That’d be like taking a smelling class.” tinyurl.com...
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Gordon Parenting: Parent Effectiveness Training
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What Should Parents Expect Coming to a PET Workshop? tinyurl.com...
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Free Parent Resource from Gordon Training International
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www.gordontraining.com...
HERE IS WHAT PARENTS WILL LEARN
1. Determine who “owns the problem” in a given situation.
2. Identify the 12 Roadblocks to Communication.
3. Distinguish between Roadblocks and Active Listening.
4. Avoid the Roadblocks that cause most helping attempts to fail.
5. Recognize when their child needs their help as a skilled listener.
6. Use silence, acknowledgments and door-openers to help their child with a problem.
7. Active Listen to hear their child’s feelings.
8. Active Listen to clarify information.
9. Distinguish between Acceptable and Unacceptable Behavior.
10. Determine what to do when child’s behavior interferes with parent’s meeting their needs.
11. Develop a three-part Confrontive I-Message.
12. Confront their child’s unacceptable behavior with an I-Message.
13. Shift gears between I-Messages and Active Listening when appropriate.
14. Acknowledge others’ efforts with Appreciative I-Messages.
15. Prevent problems and conflicts using Preventive I-Messages.
16. Recognize conflict situations.
17. Distinguish between Conflicts-of-Needs and Values Collisions.
18. Avoid the use of Method I.
19. Avoid the use of Method II.
20. Set the stage for Method III Conflict Resolution.
21. Use Method III to resolve a conflict between the parent and child.
22. Use Method III to mediate a conflict between others.
23. Handle Values Collisions.
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IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS EMAIL OR CALL JACK:
Cell: 0224094035 Email: responsiblyfree@protonmail.com
Toward Responsibly Free Peaceful Parenting the PET way, Jack Carney
Certified PET Instructor (Effectiveness Training Institute of Australia Ltd)
While it is a fun occasion, fireworks on Guy Fawkes Night has caused much conflict over the years, upsetting our pets and disrupting the sleep of neighbours.
How should we celebrate Guy Fawkes Night? Vote in our poll and share your thoughts below.
Hi neighbours,
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Sneak Peek.
Coming to market early next week. This very spacious Browns Bay home is at the end of a cul-de-sac. It has 4 bedrooms & 4 bathrooms plus a peek of the sea ... It's in-zone for Rangitoto College, Northcross Intermediate, and excellent primary schools. If you are looking for … View moreSneak Peek.
Coming to market early next week. This very spacious Browns Bay home is at the end of a cul-de-sac. It has 4 bedrooms & 4 bathrooms plus a peek of the sea ... It's in-zone for Rangitoto College, Northcross Intermediate, and excellent primary schools. If you are looking for a large home in the Rangitoto College zone, register your interest with me.
Gabrielle Elborough, Real Estate Agent.
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I am helping a friend declutter some equipment they were storing from a failed business. There are 3 large HP laserjet printers, one with collation bins that need to go. They were all in use 2 years ago.
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