""What would you have to let go of in order to be, do, or have the thing that you want?.
This is something I work on with clients A LOT.
Particularly in friendships between women, we have an automatic tendency to affirm FIRST and ask questions later.
However, I would suggest that the perfect friendship is one where there is balance: you gotta' be CHALLENGED as well as cherished!
That being said: people can receive being challenged best...when they feel safe.
So, I find the best way to challenge MY loved ones (while cherishing them) is to ask questions that empower them to look at things from new perspectives.
Here's one of my favorite questions to ask a private coaching clients who has identified something in their life that they want to change:
""What would you have to let go of in order to be, do, or have the thing that you want"?.
You'll be surprised how insightful and creative people get when they sit with this question!
So, Is there anything in your life you have to let of in order to be, do, or have the thing that you want?
If the answer is YES, contact Ann Jay for a Free 15 minute phone consultation to discuss and find out how she can help.
Call now on 021 26 89 842 or visit www.relationshipwellbeingspecialist.nz...
Poll: Do you think NZ should ban social media for youth?
The Australian Prime Minister has expressed plans to ban social media use for children.
This would make it illegal for under 16-year-olds to have accounts on platforms including TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and X.
Social media platforms would be tasked with ensuring children have no access (under-age children and their parents wouldn’t be penalised for breaching the age limit)
.
Do you think NZ should follow suit? Vote in our poll and share your thoughts below.
-
85.2% Yes
-
13.8% No
-
1% Other - I'll share below
scumbags
There are some really awful people around at the moment. This is what happened on Sunday.
We live in Hinemoa Street opposite the Waiwhetu Stream. At around 3.40 in the afternoon I was looking out my window and saw a car pull up and start to feed the geese and ducks out the window. Then The passenger an asian man jumped out and threw himself onto a goose. he picked it up and put it the boot of the car.
I immediately ran over and stood in front of his car to stop him moving I also called my husband to help. A lovely man was riding his bike and saw it and stopped to help me. The driver tried to drive into me but I didnt move. He tried telling us it was his pet. These are wild geese.
They had a cage in the boot and some wire all ready to catch the poor bird like they have done it before. My husband took the bird from the car and released it. I then moved out of the way and after lots of abuse from the driver they drove off threatening to come back and get more.
No one should be allowed to take these beautiful birds and certainly not like this. they are all starting to have wee babies at the moment the whole thing was so upsetting to me. Another neighbour further down the road also saw it all happen.
Please keep a look out for this car and if you see them by the stream go over and watch them lets all stop this happening.
Seasonal Home Check-Up Reminder! 🔍
Hi everyone!
As the seasons change, it’s time to think about your home’s exterior. Inspecting for cracks, peeling, or other signs of wear is crucial to maintaining your property. Small issues can lead to bigger problems if not addressed.
If you notice any concerns, don’t hesitate to reach out! At Texturite, we specialise in repairs and restorations to ensure your home stays protected from the elements.
📞 027 341 3454 📍 Serving the Kapiti / Wellington region
Loading…
